Frank
Very tricky!!! If you are 100% I think you can avoid that trap and get the care if it is available. I wonder if they would just pay for the home you are in and not send you to a VA home. That I don't want, ever unless I am senile and then I won't care.
JOHN, I CAN ONLY STATE WHAT I KNOW. MY BROUTHER SERVED 30 YS IN SERVICE, HE HAS BEEN IA A VETERANS HOME,20 YS, HE IS IN MENLO PARK, ABOUT 5 MILES FROM ME.I DO KNOW HE IS GIVING MONEY FOR PERSONAL NEEDS. THIS PLACE IS LIKE A COUNTRY CLUB. WE LIVE IN NEW JERSEY,WE ALSO HAVE A HOME IN BRADENTON,FLORIDE WHERE WE SPEND WINTERS.VA CARE IS VERY BAD IN FLORIDA,
I DON,T TRUST THE FLORIDA PRIVATE DOCTORS AT ALL. NEW JERSE STATE IS VERY GOOD TO VETERANS, I THINK MENLO PARK IS RUN BY THE STATE. SO YOU MAY WANTE TO CHECK YOUR STATE BENIFITS. WHY ARE YOU SO INSTREASTED IN NURSING HOMES DO YOU PLAN TO GO TO SOON? YOU BETTER THINK ABOUT BEING SENILE, THOSE OLD LADIES AND MEN WOULD HAVE A BALL WITH YOU. FRANK