QUOTE (halos2 @ Oct 7 2008, 04:20 PM)

What rating did they allow? Have you utalized a VSO all throughout your claims process?
Glad you got rated now. Continue to fight!

I got rated 100% Total not permanent. I have another C&P in two years. They did find me incompetent and my husband has to be my Fiduciary, which is OK with me. There are days were if I did not have his help, I would walk around and be lost. I have been fighting the VA for 8 years, at this point I am glad to take the rating, back pay and move on with my life, which has been taken away from me over the past 20 years. I had a son that was a product of the assault. My husband and I have been married for over 11 years and he has seen the worst of me and we are still together and plan to stay that way. That says a lot about him. Weather the money comes in my husbands name for me or my name, it all goes to pay the same bills, put cloths on our backs and food on the table. I only utilized a VSO once when I first put my claim in 8 years ago. I do believe if had gotten more help, it might not have taken so long. Nobody wanted to help me back then when I mentioned military sexual trauma. They told me It would take a long time and may not win my claim. (I think the men felt uncomfortable taking on the claim) Well, I am Like a bulldog when someone tells me it can not be done or it's going to be hard. So I did it all on my own, and boy was it hard. (not being of sound body and mind at times) I did not have hadit.com back then, or did not know about it, to get all the great info. and advise -- I did the old fashion way-- WALKING IN BLIND. I continued to fight because --I KNEW I WAS RIGHT. FIGHT FOR WHATS RIGHT!!!!!!!!